Author: Robert
Hellenga
Publisher: Little,
Brown and Company
ISBN: 0-316-05826-2
Pages:
277
Spoiler
Alert – This book does not have a happy ending. I like happy
endings. I think there is too much sad news in the world, that when
I read a book of my own choosing, I would like it to have a neat,
tidy, happy ending. I like to escape from the real world of drought,
tornadoes, child pornography, cancer etc. I guess I expected this
book to include painful examinations of life, since it does have
philosophy in the title, but as I was carried away with the story, it
seemed like it was building to a happy resolution, but on the
“inauspicious day” of the main character's daughter's wedding –
everything fell apart, and I was sad.
This is one of the
Off the Shelf Challenge books that I've been meaning to read.
Several years ago, when it seemed like I had more “free” time
because I was only working one job and going to school full-time, I
started listening to undergrad course online. One class that I
especially enjoyed was PHI 110: Introduction to Philosophy by Missouri State University on iTunes. It was a nice review of the
foundations of philosophy that I was supposed to get as an undergrad,
but never did. Around that time, I stumbled on Hellenga's book at
the University Bookstore and thought it might show how someone
“really” thought about philosophy in everyday life. So, I
ordered it from Paperback Swap and it has sat on my shelf since.
I really related
to the introduction of the book. Everything had changed for Rudy –
his wife died, his three daughters moved away to live their lives,
and he was left alone with the dogs in the family house in Chicago.
The girls and grandkids would visit, but it was no longer their home.
Since my parents are about that same age, it made me think about
how they must be feeling with us kids out of the house, living our
lives and only visiting briefly. I too am nostalgic about the family
memories we created in the house – the Christmases, birthday,
confirmations, graduations and other paties but also the little
things like letting the rabbits run around the living room while the
cat watched uninterested, eating pizza on Sunday nights and watching
the Wonderful World of Disney, turning off the lights during a
thunderstorm to watch the lightning out the picture window and
eventually sharing our home with Grandma during the last years of her
life. These memories are a part of me – but are they a part of the
house?
Rudy decides to
sell the house and become an avocado farmer in Texas. At first the
girls are supportive, but as reality sets in - they dread the loss
of their family home and seem to be afraid of recognizing that their
father is a person in his own right with hopes, regrets and a life.
What accompanies Rudy through all the changes is a college textbook
Philosophy Made Simple. His wife has been an art history professor
and he acquired a lot of her knowledge, but not all of her tastes for
art, history and philosophy. With a new space and open time, Rudy
begins contemplating the big questions of life – What is beauty?
What is happiness? What is the meaning of life? How do I know?
Plato's Allegory of the Cave and the philosophy of Immanuel Kant, the thing-in-itself (das Ding an sich) are his touchstones throughout his philosophical
meanderings in the midst of living life. He builds a life in Texas,
farms avocados, plans and hosts his daughter's Indian wedding, and
makes peace with the affair his wife had in Italy a few years before
she died of cancer. Along the way, he tries out his philosophical
understandings on his Mexican foreman, a Mexican paramour, the author
of the textbook (who is a charismatic uncle of his new son-in-law),
and a Russian and his artistic elephant Norma Jean that paints and is
eventually abandoned to Rudy's care.
One of the
interesting conversation in the book was about happiness – not just
what it was, but when are we the happiest, or what was our happiest
moment. “The pandit was quick to disagree: “Trying to reach
happiness by fulfilling your desires is like trying to reach the
horizon by running toward it. True happiness is to found not in the
fulfillment of desire, but escape from desire.” (p. 212).
Rudy counters with the idea “I think people are the happiest when
they're standing on the threshold of a new life . . . “ His
daughter continues with the illustration of the urn in Keat's poem
Ode to a Grecian Urn, “It is not the kiss, but the moment just
before the kiss that's the moment of real happiness” (p. 213). As
soon as we get what we desire, we begin to desire something else. It
is the absence of desire – the contentment of what we have, and
being grateful for it.
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